Questions for today.  Why do you not realise that things you say are insulting, hurtful, painful and callous?  Why do you think all this is ok because you are being 'truthful'? Why is it ok to hurt people because you are 'just saying'?  Why are you completely incapable of paying someone a compliment or indeed, even saying something nice?  Is making someone feel good about themselves seen as a weakness?  Is being kind really such an awful thing?