After a very long journey, I have officially become Ria from Butterflies.  We are very closely linked.  Like her, I have been in a strange place since, well, probably from the age of 10. I live in the suburbs.  Married with two children.  Stay-at-home mum.   I can't stand and I mean reeeeally can't stand cooking.  I am just not wired for it.  One should always know where their strengths lie and mine is very clearly, not here.  I think she once said something like 'it just seems like such alot of time and effort for something that's going to disappear very quickly'.  Ria, I hear you.  Now I just need to find me a Leonard!